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2015年12月27日星期日

Entrepreneurship and family, how we can correct?

As a mother of four, I know that while entrepreneurship and homely and ensure the quality of life is so difficult. It is a very time play baby games consuming business and energy. If you do not pay more attention to the last often a sieve, the cause of the family are not frustrated.

We want to maintain a balance between business and family although not simple, but by no means impossible. In fact when a good entrepreneur and between a good parent when both have a lot of skill is interconnected. Below are five points my personal summary:

1. Who is responsible for a good discussion with children

First, you have to know you can not at the same time with children their own work. If you really want to do this if you only made the situation worse. You'll not only a lot of pressure, your child will be uncomfortable, while aspects of your company will be affected.

So, you and your family must be negotiated with children about it. This means that your partner with you should be ready to bear all the burden of housework and feed their families, whether to pay water, electricity bills, the family plans to go out to play dates or in your business or devote to the business when independent take good care of the home. Also, do not forget the children. Children are also part of the family, be sure to let him know the situation at home, let him have a sense of team work together, to do their best for the family of a force.

2. taking the time to spend quality time with their children

In fact, the length of time is not the most important, with emphasis on quality. Perhaps this sentence sounds irrational, but scientific investigations have proved its authenticity. Please note that you are not only in children around, you have to ensure that you have to communicate with the child. There are a lot of parents think that their own people at home, everything will be fine, in fact, "at home" with children "coexistence" is not equal.

Not only do you want children around, you have to do activities with the children.

One of the reasons might be for your business more freedom to arrange their own time. Sooner or later you'll come this far, but the company has just started when it can not. So do not complain at the time their own overtime or discouraged, please accept this reality, understand that this is part of your life can not be cut off, and cherish you can live together with your child time. If you like to arrange a fixed period of time, it is also a good choice. Many of these recommendations on the parent-child relationship will let you turn off the TV,play baby games I also agree that by a little; but sometimes quietly together watching a movie with your child is also helpful.

But one thing to note: Be sure to remember to leave time for yourself and your lover. Your life is not only work and children. Maybe at first you think that life is nothing, but sooner or later things will go wrong.

3. draw a line

This is entirely up to you. Even though I said before that you are looking for a qualified person to help you with children, but you have to know the limits, some things that you must personally come. Such as holidays, children's school concerts, and other school events, etc., these things you must not miss, or for your family and yourself are negative.

Although the cause is very important to you, you probably do not want to let go of the job at hand, but sometimes you have to put family first. You have to understand these painstakingly planning your all for the family to pay all will return. Every time you can not let your family to you compromise.

4. Give yourself a break

Taking into account the business and the family is a great challenge. Sometimes you can not help but put their lives compare with your friends, or to see other people wrote about the perfect family blog, then belittle, think they harm everyone home.

Aspect to restrain his wish to forget bad indeed difficult, and this guilt is not entirely a bad thing, after all, people always need some self-critical thinking. Such negativity can also make you more aware of your own position, you reach your own requirements. But you must know when to give yourself a break, a good relax. If you're so hard on yourself, you may become depressed. In short, do not be yourself defeated.

5. The business is family

You can under the circumstances and nature of your work, try your career become the family thing. This is not difficult, even if only to work or travel play Frozen Games days you tell the family that can be considered; in short, to make your family involved. Even if your family's age or condition allows it, you can get them directly involved, to contribute to your career. This is not only to spend time with the family recipe, you can also let the children learn a lot of skills; maybe one day, your child become entrepreneurs, they will spend you teach them these skills.

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